Wednesday, March 3, 2010

One Million Arrows

"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it." Proverbs 22:6

If you know me in *real* life, then you know that my heart has been stretched, broken, transformed and reshaped over the course of the past year-- maybe two. I can't point to any one single reason, but the sum is always great than it's parts...right?

Enter One Million Arrows: Raising Your Children to Change The World by Julie Ferwerda. I opened this book not entirely sure what to expect; although, I had a suspicion that it would just jibe with where I am in life.

I was right!

It's like Julie snuck into my heart and Not only does this book encourage parents to raise their own children to live a life characterized by a passionate pursuit of God (and to do it now), but it pushes the envelope even further and exhorts us to include all of the orphaned, abandoned, hopeless and hurting little ones throughout the world. "Will the world change your children, or will your children change the world?" Now *that* is a call to action!

Rather than saying anything more myself, I would like to invite Julie Ferwerda as my guest today! Sit back, grab a fresh cup of coffee and let you heart be transformed...

1. The title of your book is, One Million Arrows: What is that all about? The title originated with a man I met in India by the name of Dr. M.A. Thomas. He’s received many national awards in India such as the Mother Theresa Award and the Padma Shri for his humanitarian efforts, especially for his work with orphaned and abandoned children that he started in the 1970s. In the 90s, Dr. Thomas read a verse in the Bible that describes children as a gift and a reward, like sharp arrows in the hands of a mighty warrior (Psalm 127:3-5). He realized that all children, regardless of background and circumstances, should be seen as a gift and a legacy to society because they can make a significant and positive impact in the world if given the proper training and opportunities.

India has as many as 80 million orphans so he set a goal of rescuing one million orphaned and abandoned children, sharpening them with love, education, and spiritual nurturing, and launching them back into society to bring positive change through the power of the Good News about Jesus. To date he has raised over 16,000 orphaned and abandoned children who have become doctors, nurses, teachers, politicians, missionaries, and leaders, and he has planted over 21,000 churches in India and South Asia.

Relating to us…the arrow vision of raising children to be a gift and heritage to their society is for all parents, all countries. So many parents in our culture have lost their vision as to the incredible opportunity we’ve been given to shape—not just tomorrow’s leaders—but today’s leaders and shapers of their peer groups, schools, and communities. But this takes vision and deliberate investment and training. One Million Arrows casts a vision for parents to sharpen and launch our children right now to make a positive impact on society.

2. You mentioned the notion of parents investing in or training their children. Isn’t this what parents already do? Some parents do invest in and train their children to some degree, but there is also a lot of hands-off parenting in our society today, especially in training character development as well as teaching our children how to live for the big-picture—like what were they made to do in this world, what are their unique gifts and abilities, and how can they use them to make a difference now?

We have to train our children to serve others—it doesn’t come naturally. But for many of us, once our kids head into kindergarten, it’s easier to let someone else take over a lot of the training, or to allow our kids to fade into their entertainment-driven culture in their spare time. We need to see parenting as a much bigger opportunity and invitation than that!

I use an illustration in OMA from 9/11 about victims, bystanders, and firemen, the roles people take when lives are at stake. We must teach our children to see themselves as the firemen of this world…the heroes who are willing to set aside their own comforts in order to make a radical difference for others who are suffering or even in danger. There are so many in our world—whether the world around us or the world at large—who need our help and care in order to be saved from terrible circumstances.

I am so encouraged to see a great movement of young people in our world right now who are joining God in His work, coming back to historic levels of competence, purpose, and service for their fellow man. OMA emphasizes helping your kids find what they are passionate about and then training them to use it to serve and positively impact others.

3. Can you give us an example of kids who are using their talents and passions to serve others? Many of these kinds of young people are featured in the book, such as Chloe who is currently majoring in filmmaking in order to positively impact her culture by communicating truths that will spur her peers to make positive choices in life. She’s already received Film Festival awards for her work on the film, “The Enemy God” by (10X Productions), Ivan uses his love for extreme sports to hold events worldwide for sports enthusiasts where he shares a bold Gospel message and then plugs youth into local churches. My oldest daughter Dani uses her love for music and working with kids to impact hundreds of kids during the summer as a Christian camp counselor. These are just a few of many inspiring examples!

4. You have an emphasis in OMA for families to invest in taking care of international orphaned and abandoned children through established organizations. Why is that? Investing in other children is one of the best ways to get your kids hearts interested and engaged in serving and helping others. Also, there are so many children worldwide who are the truest victims and have no means to get out of the gutters of life without help. As mentioned, these kids are currently being rescued and shaped to become spiritual leaders and contributing citizens of their own countries. Our family can make a true difference in the world by impacting lives of these children, which will in turn impact whole villages and cities as they grow up. What a great investment of our time, talents, and money! Many organizations will even allow you to visit the orphanages and ministries you help support.

We love to make it known that all proceeds of OMA go to international orphan ministries.

5. Is this a “how to” parenting book? We do share many principles-based parenting tips from several successful arrow-raising families. But there are already many how-to books on the shelves and I’ve had publishers tell me that parents ask for them but then don’t buy them. That’s because parents need inspiration: “What’s possible through our family if I commit this kind of energy to deliberate parenting? Can our family make a true difference in the world?” The major emphasis in OMA is inspirational aspect of parenting—casting a vision of the exciting ways your family can plug in to make a difference.

6. Is there any place parents can go after reading the book for more inspiration and guidance? We are currently developing our website ( as a community where parents can share testimonies as well as spiritual training helps. We are also adding many resources on our site such as unique orphan ministries to consider getting involved in, suggested books and resources, daily spiritual training helps, and stories of young people around the world who are making a difference.

I cannot encourage you enough to pick up a copy of this book by clicking here. 100% of the proceeds of this book go to supporting international orphan ministries world-wide. If you are interested in purchasing the book in bulk for a church group, study or just to give away to friends to spread the word, click here.

As an added bonus, I'm going to leave you with FOUR different ways that you can win a copy of One Million Arrows!

1. Leave me a comment. That's all. Just let me know that you stopped by.
2. Link to this post via your FB status. You tag me in the post just so I am sure to see it, but please head back here and leave an additional comment letting me know that you did so.
3. Link to this post via Twitter. Just leave an additional comment letting me know.
4. Write your own blog post and link to (Same rules as above apply!)

You can enter your name up to four times. The winner will be randomly selected on Friday! Whether you win or not, I highly recommend that you buy a copy (or ten)! *wink*



  1. You know that I'm always lurking around here. :)

  2. And it'll be on Facebook as soon as my Twitter links up. :)

    (I'm not going to put it on my blog until I've read it. I'm weird like that.) :)

  3. I am here because I saw Lindsay's status. Looks like a good book

  4. I would love to check it out :-)

  5. If I win the book, I promise to pass it on to all of our mutual friends!

  6. oh, i'm so glad i came here today!! i'd LOVE to read this book. if i don't win, i'm sure i'll purchase. =)

    {and i stopped by because i was thinking of you and praying for you! hope it's going well!}

  7. Hmm... I may just have to read this at some point.